In deep respect of your courage, I'll say that there are revenge porn laws that assist victims in most jurisdictions now. Enact them in your favour.

Whatever you do next in your personal life, remember that a loving relationship is not dependent on recording digital images of the consummation of your intimacy.

You are a very strategically intelligent person for adopting the tactics you have in anticipation of an uncomfortable public revelation.

I have no doubt that PR firms would love to have a person of your experience and sensitivity on their teams.

In light of your ordeal, it is time to think of ways your that unique perspective could benefit the world and yourself.

Form an advisory group of trusted confidantes to this end.

The integrity of your person comes through in your writing. You will prevail over malevolence.